Actually talk to both parties before passing sentence. Because context is important and you can't get context without talking to both parties. It may be more work but nothing worth doing is easy. Might even make the perpetrators party act more responsibly as they might then themselves be forced to put their own actions into context as well. On this site while the fetish's central to this site are quite obvious some people may vary on their specifics and if you like a b and c and the other person in the dialog like b c and e then communications can go south fast and if you do not understand the context and or motive things can and will escalate quickly.
That's my feedback.
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